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December 19, 2006

Why NLP - how NLP changed my life

Two words - a lot.

Before NLP - I wasn't sure that I have the confidence to get up on stage and speak. Now, there is no problem anymore. The anxiety is gone, the dry mouth, the fear to fail - gone. Left is energy and fun.

Before NLP - I sometimes walked around, in my home, my place or my area, or just fdrove car, and suddenly got angry. Didn't know why. I still get angry, but now I am curious - what is happening to me and what does this mean, where is it coming from, can I change this?

Before NLP - I woke up in the morning was just like a machine, going to get dressed, have my breakfast and got impatient when things didn't turn out the way they should. Now, okay, I am still impatient, sometimes, but I am not that much anchored to going to work sharp on time, in the feeling that I would miss out something if I leave 5 or 10 minutes later.

Before NLP - I wasn't able to change my moods. My inner feelings dictated my mood. Now, I am able to switch them anytime, anywhere

Before NLP - I didn't realise that success has a structure that is inside of me. Sometimes I was lucky, sometimes I wasn't. Now I know how to turn my luck into my success.

Before NLP - relationship building was based on chance. Now I know how to build rapport and how to break it. I can chose my friends.

Before NLP - I was at the mercy of other peopel's mood. Now I can decide to get influence or not

Before NLP - anytime someone said something to me that I didn't like, I got haunted at night, wondering what happened and how I deserve such criticism. Now I can chose my reaction and my learning from the experience

Before NLP - I had no idea how many stupid habits I had in my lfie. I bought things I didn't need in retroperspective. Now I can adopt or break a habit anytime.

Before NLP - only my inner feeling told me when someone was on to something negative. Now, I can easily detect deceit by just looking at the person, asking some questions and seeing the changes in his or her physiology;

Before NLP - I had no idea why people move their eyes in all directions. Now I know how to attune to their "inner operating system".

Before NLP - I was scared to lose my job. Now, I am confident that something positive will always come out from anything that is happening.

Before NLP - I blamed a lot of outside events for my life and my experience. Now I am able to chart my own course. I am at cause for everything I do and take 100% responsibility!

There is much more that I learnt from and through NLP and I haven't stopped yet. I want to share this experience and I do it. And I am happy to do so. so it can benefit you in your professional and personal life. So join me in January/ February for a 8 days training over only 4 weekends to gain your own personal breakthrough and discovery. It's fun, I tell you!!

Here is the brochure for your download. Secure your seat soon by registering!

Send me a mail to NLP AT AsiaMindDynamics.com, in case of further questions.


Posted by Andreas at December 19, 2006 12:04 PM

Comments

I build rapport and break it. I choose my friends. Before, now and forever. Never went to NLP training yet.
I'm so good at empathizing.

And, Andreas... not sure whether now you've deleted my number or not after the previous disagreement we had. I thought u would stop at 'I agree to disagree, becoz I really stopped there, but I see that ur still editing my comments, so I guess u never really agreed to disagree.

"Before NLP - anytime someone said something to me that I didn't like, I got haunted at night, wondering what happened and how I deserve such criticism. Now I can chose my reaction and my learning from the experience"

I think u still get haunted, which is why u can't stop editing my comments, perhaps to make u seem more right that me, or that I should accept ur opinion.

Your comment has some accusations to me and u used red herrings too to shift the focus of argument.

And dear Andreas, the Danish were never here. :) Plus, the article u base ur comment on, if u carefully read it, the hotel is located near to a mosque by some Malay organization.

And also, when u question how many muslim women I have known... hmmm don't forget that I was born, brought up, taught, surrounded by them. Many kinds of them but more of the genuine Malay women and if they marry a foreign man, the'll marry someone who doesn't forget to wish Selamat Hari Raya Korban (too), instead of just "Merry X'mas to ALL my readers..." It seems like Muslims are not ur friends even though u r, as u confessed, married to one.

Nizar - we never had a disagreement. I always agree with what you say, and it is correct, from your point of view, your map of the world. I am sorry when I didn't write Selamat Hari Raya Korban too, because I simply am very busy. I haven't even written about goal setting this year, something that is really dear to me, just to give you another indication. And no, of course I haven't deleted your number.

And of course, I can chose to get haunted at night, when I will, and stop it easily as well. BTW: I tried to edit my comments and add on, and then got lost inside of it. And then I stopped, as it is simple to stop, really!

So have a great year 2007, make it your best ever - this is a simple personal not from me to you! Have fun in whatever you do!


Posted by: Nizar at January 8, 2007 11:00 AM

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