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January 08, 2006
The spread of hate
Last week, comments were posted in this blog that were, according to my ethical understanding, way out of the "usual".
Thank you, Mr. or Mrs. Kelly, Yuking, Coolooc, Molisa, and Konek for their extensive outline of their thoughts, but my apologies, I am not in the mood to keep those comments in my blog, even as comments.
The comments were long - it probably took a while to prepare them - but were inciting, blaming the government, blaming Badawi, blaming the education system, blaming the Indians, Chinese, and Malays and blaming anything else in the world.
It is interesting to read thecomments. And to ponder about the persons behind them. These are people that carry hate within them. They blame others for things that went awry in their own life. They generalise experience so much, that it applies to everything.
Look at hate - you can blame the Chinese, the Indians, the Malays for your own misery. But ask yourself, honestly. Has there never been a Chinese, an Indian, a Malay who behaved in a way that contradicted your thinking, your belief? That was actually good, in your map of the world? Has there never been a situation, an action from the government when you said or felt, yeah, that is the correct or right thing to do? Never in your life?
Their beliefs are so incredibly limiting. If you believe that others are to blame for your own misery, where is your own choice?
The more you blame others, the more you give those "others" control over your own life.
Think about this! And ask yourself if you are really so helpless in your life? And, do you really want to keep living this way, in this limited?
Don't you think that it is time to take your life in your own hand?
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Posted by Andreas at January 8, 2006 05:55 PM
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Whoever is that person using the nick 'Konek'? haha
Posted by: Nizar at January 13, 2006 06:17 PM
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